01 / RECOGNIZE
Pause before adding more words
You are halfway through a point when someone interrupts. Take a brief pause instead of trying to outrun them.
FREE FIELD GUIDE NO. 07
A short sequence to help you finish your point without rushing into a comeback.
YOURS TO KEEP
Open it now. Use it in your next conversation.
A SMALL MOVE YOU CAN USE TODAY
Give yourself a pause, then ask for enough room to finish.
FROM THE GUIDE / Use this sequence
Take one comfortable breath and relax your shoulders. Then say: “Hold that thought. Let me finish this point, then I want to hear yours.”
01 / RECOGNIZE
You are halfway through a point when someone interrupts. Take a brief pause instead of trying to outrun them.
02 / RESPOND
At an opening, say the line above in your normal speaking voice. Finish the thought in one or two sentences, then invite their response as promised.
03 / FOLLOW THROUGH
If they are correcting an urgent fact, hear it before continuing. If interruptions keep happening, ask the meeting lead for a turn or arrange a follow-up.
Free to use. Easy to put into practice.